Mediation, in concept, is a simple process.  A neutral third party, usually a very experienced family law attorney, helps negotiate a settlement between two spouses, ex-spouses, or parents who are in some type of family law litigation or involved in a dispute. A settlement derived at mediation is presented to the Judge, who then, almost without exception, approves the agreement, often without you having to go through the time, expense and emotion of a trial. That’s it, case over.

Mediations are handled informally and confidentially.  A trained mediator will help the parties come to terms with one another.  The mediator doesn’t force you to settle, but can facilitate the negotiation process that assists the parties in reaching agreement with each other.
It is really is like a business negotiation, albeit more emotional, when the mediation deals with   the financial aspects of a family law case.  Offers and counteroffers are made until the parties reach an agreement.  Even if you can’t agree on all of the issues, you can settle some or most of the issues at mediation and leave the unresolved issue or issues for the judge to decide.